Mistake No. 1: Lack of Respect.
Never say anything bad about your partner to your friends or associates. Spouses always need to be thanked. They need to know that they are appreciated.
Mistake No. 2: Not Listening to Your Spouse.This include allowing your spouse to wander, paying more attention to the computer or television set ignoring body language and interrupting.
Mistake No. 3: Lack of Sexual Intimacy.This is a death knell for a marriage. Seek medical and therapeutic counselling if necessary. Don’t leave your spouse wondering why you aren’t interested in sex.
Mistake No. 4: Always Having to Be Right.This include lecturing your mate or having to have the last word. Very few people can love a know-it-all forever. Admit when you don’t have all the answers. Don’t answer every simple question with a long-winded dissertation on the topic.
Mistake No. 5: Not Walking the Talk.Action they say speaks louder than words. When you say you will do something, do it. And when you say you will not do something, follow through.
Mistake No. 6: Hurtful Teasing.If your spouse says the teasing is hurtful, then stop it. Claiming that your spouse doesn’t have sense of humour or is too sensitive is being inconsiderate and unkind.
Mistake No. 7: Dishonesty.Telling lies and keeping secrets in your relationship can create distance and lack of trust between the two of you.
Mistake No. 8: Being Annoying.This includes continuing to have gross personal hygiene habits, or always being late or nitpicking everything your spouse does, e.t.c. It is when you know you are annoying and you continue to annoy.
Mistake No. 9: Being Selfish and Greedy.This is when your money is for you alone and you spend so much on yourself, but your spouse spends a dime, it then becomes a big deal. This is not wanting to open your home to your friends and family because you prefer to be alone and don’t want the hassles of entertaining. This is hogging the remote, only going to cheap restaurants when you could afford better or not watching movies your spouse wants to watch.
Mistake No. 10: Temper Tantrums.
Every couple needs to be able to handle conflicts in a constructive way. Having an angry outburst so that you can win an argument will make you the loser in the end.
RECOMMENDED LINKS:
The Top 10 Break Up Mistakes:How to Get Your Ex Lover Back Even After Making Every Mistake In The Book
7 Critical Mistakes People Commonly Make in Intimate Relationships...and How to Avoid Them
Marriage by Mistake
Nine Critical Mistakes Most Couples Make: Identify the Pitfalls and Discover God's Help
Chetan Bhagat Combo Of 4 Books : Five Point Someone, One Night at the Call Centre, 2 States (The Story of My Marriage) and The 3 Mistakes of My Life
Never say anything bad about your partner to your friends or associates. Spouses always need to be thanked. They need to know that they are appreciated.
Mistake No. 2: Not Listening to Your Spouse.This include allowing your spouse to wander, paying more attention to the computer or television set ignoring body language and interrupting.
Mistake No. 3: Lack of Sexual Intimacy.This is a death knell for a marriage. Seek medical and therapeutic counselling if necessary. Don’t leave your spouse wondering why you aren’t interested in sex.
Mistake No. 4: Always Having to Be Right.This include lecturing your mate or having to have the last word. Very few people can love a know-it-all forever. Admit when you don’t have all the answers. Don’t answer every simple question with a long-winded dissertation on the topic.
Mistake No. 5: Not Walking the Talk.Action they say speaks louder than words. When you say you will do something, do it. And when you say you will not do something, follow through.
Mistake No. 6: Hurtful Teasing.If your spouse says the teasing is hurtful, then stop it. Claiming that your spouse doesn’t have sense of humour or is too sensitive is being inconsiderate and unkind.
Mistake No. 7: Dishonesty.Telling lies and keeping secrets in your relationship can create distance and lack of trust between the two of you.
Mistake No. 8: Being Annoying.This includes continuing to have gross personal hygiene habits, or always being late or nitpicking everything your spouse does, e.t.c. It is when you know you are annoying and you continue to annoy.
Mistake No. 9: Being Selfish and Greedy.This is when your money is for you alone and you spend so much on yourself, but your spouse spends a dime, it then becomes a big deal. This is not wanting to open your home to your friends and family because you prefer to be alone and don’t want the hassles of entertaining. This is hogging the remote, only going to cheap restaurants when you could afford better or not watching movies your spouse wants to watch.
Mistake No. 10: Temper Tantrums.
Every couple needs to be able to handle conflicts in a constructive way. Having an angry outburst so that you can win an argument will make you the loser in the end.
RECOMMENDED LINKS:
The Top 10 Break Up Mistakes:How to Get Your Ex Lover Back Even After Making Every Mistake In The Book
7 Critical Mistakes People Commonly Make in Intimate Relationships...and How to Avoid Them
Marriage by Mistake
Nine Critical Mistakes Most Couples Make: Identify the Pitfalls and Discover God's Help
Chetan Bhagat Combo Of 4 Books : Five Point Someone, One Night at the Call Centre, 2 States (The Story of My Marriage) and The 3 Mistakes of My Life
